Split Happens — A Divorce Podcast Featuring Jay Henderlite

Divorce often leaves families facing more questions than answers. From financial uncertainty to parenting challenges, the process can feel overwhelming. Many people struggle with:

• Understanding custody decisions
• Managing emotions during conflict
• Navigating life changes after separation

These realities highlight the need for guidance that goes beyond the courtroom.

That’s where Split Happens comes in. Created by Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite in partnership with News4Jax, it reframes divorce as an opportunity for growth rather than failure.

Through candid conversations and expert insight, the show empowers listeners with tools, confidence, and perspective for navigating family transitions with dignity.

Find all episodes of Split Happens here.

A Fresh Discussion of Divorce

We believe talking about divorce doesn’t have to feel intimidating. That’s why Split Happens mixes straightforward discussion with a conversational tone.

Each episode blends practical guidance with real-world insights, breaking down complex family law topics like child custody, therapy & healing, and divorce with kids into simple, actionable takeaways.

The podcast is co-hosted by Jay Henderlite, a board-certified family law attorney and partner at Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, and Katie Garner, a Jacksonville meteorologist. Together, they bring legal insight and approachable storytelling to some of life’s toughest conversations.

Where to Find Split Happens

Listeners can stream Split Happens on major platforms including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, and News4Jax online. With a growing library of episodes, Split Happens covers fresh perspectives on divorce, custody, co-parenting, and family transitions.

Episodes

Split Happens covers topics including custody, alimony, co-parenting, social media, mediation, and more — with new episodes continuing to offer clarity and confidence for navigating family transitions.

Episode 1 – “Divorce Isn’t the End- It’s A Beginning”

The first episode challenges the common idea of “winning” in court. Instead of focusing on tearing down an ex, the discussion highlights personal growth and long-term stability.

The real victory comes from leaving the process with a stronger, healthier life.

Watch “Divorce Isn’t the End- It’s A Beginning” now ➔

Episode 2 – “What About the Kids?”

This episode shifts attention to the child’s perspective during divorce. It explores how children absorb parental conflict and why respectful communication matters.

The focus is on protecting emotional health and fostering a stable environment where kids feel secure and understood.

Watch “What About the Kids?” now ➔

Episode 3 – “The Truth About Alimony”

The third episode tackles the financial side of divorce, from dividing assets to managing alimony and child support. Instead of focusing on conflict, it emphasizes planning, fairness, and building a sustainable future.

The goal is to give you practical insights that bring confidence, stability, and a clear path forward.

Watch “The Truth About Alimony” now ➔

Episode 4 – “What Cheating Means for Your Divorce”

This episode tackles one of the most emotionally charged questions in family law — does infidelity actually affect the outcome of a divorce? Jay Henderlite separates legal reality from emotional reaction, clarifying what cheating can and cannot change in the courtroom.

The focus is on giving listeners clear, practical answers so they can protect themselves — both emotionally and legally — when facing one of divorce’s most painful complications.

Watch “What Cheating Means for Your Divorce” now ➔

Episode 5 – “Breakup Blues? Practical Mental Health Tools to Help You Bounce Back”

This episode shifts focus to the emotional side of divorce — the disruption to routines, identity, and everyday life that can feel just as overwhelming as the legal process. Jay Henderlite offers realistic, actionable tools for protecting mental health during one of life’s most difficult transitions.

The goal is to help listeners manage anxiety, rebuild stability, and find a path forward with confidence.

Watch “Breakup Blues? Practical Mental Health Tools to Help You Bounce Back” now ➔

Episode 6 – “Why Courtroom Etiquette Matters More Than You Think”

This episode covers what many people overlook when preparing for a family law hearing — how you present yourself in the courtroom. Jay Henderlite explains how dress, body language, and composure can shape a judge’s perception and affect the credibility of your testimony.

The takeaway is that courtroom etiquette is less about formality and more about giving yourself the best possible chance at a fair outcome.

Watch “Why Courtroom Etiquette Matters More Than You Think” now ➔

Episode 7 – “Navigating Fear & Anxiety During Divorce”

This episode addresses one of the most universal experiences of divorce — fear. Jay Henderlite examines why anxiety tends to be the loudest voice when a marriage ends, and how to keep it from driving major decisions.

The focus is on replacing fear with clarity, giving listeners practical ways to regain a sense of control and move through the process with greater confidence.

Watch “Navigating Fear & Anxiety During Divorce” now ➔

Episode 8 – “Protecting Your Children During Divorce — What Parents Need to Know”

This episode looks at how divorce affects children differently depending on their age, and what parents can do to minimize that impact. Jay Henderlite and Katie Garner discuss reducing conflict exposure, maintaining consistency across households, and modeling healthier relationships for kids.

The message is clear: while you can’t control every outcome, you can control how much your children are shielded from adult conflict — and that makes all the difference.

Watch “Protecting Your Children During Divorce” now ➔

Episode 9 – “The Role of Mediation in Family Law”

This episode demystifies mediation — what it actually is, why the majority of family law cases settle there rather than in court, and what to expect from the process, including online sessions. Jay Henderlite breaks down how mediation can help resolve disputes over custody and finances with less conflict and lower costs.

The goal is to help listeners see mediation not as a hurdle, but as a practical path to resolution that keeps more control in their hands.

Watch “The Role of Mediation in Family Law” now ➔

Episode 10 – “Social Media Mistakes to Avoid During Divorce”

This episode tackles a modern pitfall that many people don’t see coming — how social media activity can damage a divorce case. Jay Henderlite explains why what you post during proceedings can hurt your custody outcome and credibility in court, and what to do instead.

The focus is on practical, protective steps listeners can take to safeguard their case, their children, and their peace of mind.

Watch “Social Media Mistakes to Avoid During Divorce” now ➔

Find all episodes of Split Happens here.

FAQ Section

What is the Split Happens podcast about?

It’s a divorce and family law podcast designed to provide clarity, confidence, and tools for navigating major life transitions.

Who are the hosts of Split Happens?

The show is co-hosted by Jay Henderlite, a partner at Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite, and Katie Garner, Jacksonville meteorologist.

How is this podcast different from other legal shows?

Split Happens combines legal insight with approachable conversation, making difficult topics easy to understand.

What topics does Split Happens cover?

Episodes cover custody, alimony, co-parenting, communication, mediation, social media, and more — with new episodes releasing regularly.

Where can I listen to Split Happens?

Available on News4Jax, SGH’s website, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify.

How does SGH’s expertise shape the podcast?

Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite’s board-certified attorneys provide accurate, compassionate guidance rooted in decades of experience.

Will the podcast feature guest speakers or listener Q&A?

Future episodes plan to include guest voices and listener-submitted questions.

Can divorce really be a positive transition?

Yes—when approached with dignity and perspective, divorce can be an opportunity for growth.