SGH Podcast “Split Happens” Featured in USA Today

“Split Happens,” a podcast co-hosted by Henderlite and Jacksonville meteorologist Katie Garner, offers a contemporary perspective on divorce, custody, and family transitions.

The podcast was recently featured in USA Today and combines candid discussions with practical guidance, drawing on Henderlite’s extensive experience in family law and Sasso Guerrero & Henderlite’s distinctive philosophy. The firm believes that, although divorce is challenging, it need not result in devastation. Instead, it seeks to provide individuals with the tools, insights, and confidence necessary to navigate family transitions effectively.

Henderlite asserts, “The notion of divorce as a failure or an ordeal to endure is outdated. When viewed as an opportunity for renewal or growth, the process becomes less intimidating and more empowering. Our goal with this podcast is to transform these mindsets.”

The idea for “Split Happens” emerged directly from SGH’s ongoing work. With three Board Certified Marital & Family Law Experts leading the firm, a distinction unmatched in Northeast Florida, SGH has long blended legal precision with human insight. Henderlite notes that while the law may be straightforward, the emotions influencing clients are often complex.

“When clients first approach us, they are typically experiencing heightened emotional states,” he states. “However, family law operates differently. The court’s role is not to dispense punishments or moral victories but to divide assets, determine custody arrangements, and establish structure.”

The disparity between expectations and reality can leave individuals feeling disempowered. “Split Happens” aims to bridge this gap through a format that is accessible, conversational, and relatable.

Henderlite’s collaboration with Garner, his co-host, adds an engaging dynamic. The two share a childhood background, having grown up on the same street in a small town. Garner’s vibrant personality, paired with Henderlite’s legal expertise, fosters a balance between serious subjects and an approachable tone. “She brings an effervescent quality to our discussions, making them feel lighter while retaining their substance,” Henderlite remarks. “We address challenging topics, yet we strive to avoid a heavy-handed approach.”

The inaugural episode, titled “How to Win a Divorce,” appeals to individuals’ competitive instincts, albeit in an unconventional manner. Henderlite contends that true victory lies not in defeating an ex-partner in court but in emerging with an improved life. “If you achieve that,” he quips, “then you have won twice.”

The second episode, “What Your Children Want You to Know About Divorce,” addresses one of the most emotionally charged aspects of separation: parenting during the process. The message is unequivocal: children absorb what they hear, and when parents speak negatively about each other, it can lead to enduring consequences. “Your children see both parents reflected in themselves,” Henderlite explains. “If you create a negative image of the other parent, how might your child internalize that trait?”

By structuring episodes around the inquiries individuals commonly have regarding custody, alimony, and communication, “Split Happens” meets listeners at their point of need. However, the responses challenge the conventional “win at all costs” narrative, presenting instead strategies centered on dignity, respect, and long-term well-being.

Although the podcast is still in its early stages, Henderlite views “Split Happens” as the foundation of a larger initiative to reshape societal perceptions of divorce. He envisions incorporating listener questions and expanding the platform’s reach. The podcast complements SGH’s educational outreach efforts, including social media content that combines legal insights with practical advice for navigating family transitions.

“Individuals often feel like passive participants in their own divorce, as if they have relinquished their agency,” Henderlite states. “I aspire for them to feel engaged, empowered to make meaningful choices. Divorce is not the conclusion of one’s story; it is the commencement of a new chapter.”

For SGH, “Split Happens” embodies the firm’s core values. SGH feels strongly that family law is fundamentally about people, not just legal documentation.

“In life, challenging experiences are intended to teach us and facilitate growth,” Henderlite reflects. “Divorce is no exception. It does not have to be the most adverse event in your life; it can lead you toward a more favorable path.”